Sexual Assault

What is Sexual Assault?

Sexual assault is any kind of sexual activity or contact that happens without clear, willing, and informed consent. This means someone was touched or forced into a sexual act against their will — through pressure, threats, manipulation, or physical force.

What this can look like:

  • Unwanted touching or groping

  • Forcing or pressuring someone to have sex

  • Attempted or completed rape

  • Sexual contact with someone who cannot give consent (like if they are asleep, drunk, drugged, or underage)

Why Consent Matters:

Consent builds healthy relationships based on trust, respect, and safety. When we understand and practice consent, we help prevent sexual violence and create a culture of care.

What Is Consent?

Consent must be freely given

There should be no pressure, threats, guilt, or manipulation.

Consent must be clear

Silence or not fighting back does not mean yes.

Consent can be taken back

Anyone can change their mind at any time.

Consent must be informed

Both people need to fully understand what’s happening.

Consent cannot be given when

  • Asleep or unconscious

  • Drunk or high

  • Underage

  • Feeling unsafe or afraid to say no

Recognizing the Signs

Every survivor reacts differently — some may show clear signs, while others may not show any at all. But being aware of possible emotional, physical, and behavioral signs can help you recognize when someone might need support.

Emotional

  • Sudden mood swings or intense emotions

  • Anxiety, fear, or panic attacks

  • Depression or hopelessness

  • Nightmares or trouble sleeping

  • Feeling numb, detached, or distant

Physical

  • Unexplained bruises, soreness, or injuries
  • Trouble walking or sitting
  • Changes in hygiene or appearance
  • Frequent headaches, stomach issues, or fatigue

Behavioral

  • Withdrawing from friends, family, or activities
  • Changes in eating or sleeping habits
  • Using drugs or alcohol more often
  • Avoiding certain people, places, or situations
  • Sudden drop in school or work performance

Please check out additional pages that provide information about Sex Trafficking, Sexual Harassment, and Sexual Assault Safety Plans.

Sex Trafficking
Sexual Harassment
Sexual Assault Safety Plan

If you need help, please know that you are not alone. At Haven House, we are here to support you. Whether you’ve experienced sexual assault, domestic violence, or are unsure what you’re going through, our trained advocates are ready to listen without judgment and help you explore your options. Your safety and healing matter.

Crisis Line: 1-800-440-4633