Category Archives: Sexual Assault

After A Sexual Assault

It’s hard to know what to do, how to feel, or what your options are after a sexual assault. Please know that you’re not alone. Below are some things to keep in mind. If you are in immediate danger or seriously injured, call 911.

1) Your safety is important. Are you in a safe place? If you’re not feeling safe, consider reaching out to someone you trust for support. You don’t have to go through this alone.

2) What happened was not your fault. Something happened to you that you didn’t want to happen—and that’s not OK.

3) Contact Haven House at 1-800-440-4633. You’ll be able to speak to an advocate about what happened to you and all our services are free and confidential. Our advocates will listen to you, let you know what the available options are, allow you to make your own decisions, and be with you if you decide to seek medical attention or report to police.

4) Get proper medical attention. Whether or not you decide to
report to police, we suggest to get examed for potential STIs and
physical trauma. Haven House does have a variety of resources to help with medical costs associated with sexual assault exams. It is best not to shower or bath following a sexual assault, and to bring an extra set of clothes with you to the hospital. This will help preserve evidence if you decide to press charges against the rapist then or in the future.

When you call Haven House, a staff member will walk you through the process of getting help at your own pace. Our team of advocates can also accompany you to medical appointments or if you decide to report to police. Our offices also offer a confidential place to report to police so you won’t have to go to the police station.

You don’t have to walk through this alone.

*some information from www.rainn.org

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Haven House has been providing free and confidential services to
domestic violence and sexual assault survivors since 1978. 
This includes everything from providing a safe place to stay in our emergency shelter
to helping survivors reestablish their own households.

We can only do what we do, because of the support of great people like you. 
Would you help us to help survivors and consider donating $5, $10, or $20?

Thank you.




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5 Rape Deterrent Tools

Rape is never the fault of the survivor.  However, there are things that you can do to help protect yourself and defend from a potential attack.  Here are 5 interesting tools that we found from the corners of the internet to help you defend from a potential attack.

 

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  • The Defender (Bluetooth pepper spray)

Talk about an all-in-one device.  This device not only includes your typical pepper spray but also includes a camera, siren, gps, and Bluetooth.  When used the camera will immediately snap a picture of your attacker and send it to the 24/7 monitoring service, which will alert the authorities and send help to your gps location.  It will simultaneously sound a siren to attract attention, and douse your attacker in pepper spray.

Learn more here:  www.getthedefender.com/

 

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  • Anti-Rape Belt Buckle

This belt buckle is designed to be difficult in taking off and will require two hands to unbuckle.  This will act as a deterrent and will also a person more time to react when they are attacked.

Check it out here: https://www.etsy.com/listing/212129898/chestity-buckle-protect-women-from?ref=shop_home_active_1

 

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  • Self-Protection Alarm

Need a quick way to make an attacker think twice and draw attention to a potentially hostile situation.  Press the alarm button and this device will project an alarm at 130 decibels.  It can be easily put on a ring with your car keys for easy access.

Shop for one here: http://www.amazon.com/Vigilant-Personal-PPS22BL-Batteries-Activation/dp/B005E04MK0

 

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  • Date Rape Nail Polish

This product is still in the development stages, but this nail polish aims to alert individuals to possible date rape drugs that may have been put into your drink.  You simply submerge your fingernail in your drink (not necessarily proper etiquette), but if date rape drugs have been placed in your drink, your fingernail polish will turn colors.

Learn more by visiting their facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/undercovercolors

 

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  • Date Rape Cups,  Straws, and coasters

Working similar to the date rape nail polish, there a cups, straws & coasters that will change colors when date rape drugs are detected in your drink.

Learn more about these products:  www.drinksavvy.com or www.drinksafe.com

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Haven House has been providing free and confidential services to
domestic violence and sexual assault survivors since 1978. 
This includes everything from providing a safe place to stay in our emergency shelter
to helping survivors reestablish their own households.

We can only do what we do, because of the support of great people like you. 
Would you help us to help survivors and consider donating $5, $10, or $20?

Thank you.




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10 Astonishing Sexual Assault Facts

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  1. 44% of victims are under age 18

  2. 80% of victims are under age 30

  3. Every 107 Seconds, another American is sexually assaulted.

  4. 68% of sexual assaults are not reported to police.

  5. 98% of rapists will never spend a day in jail or prison.

  6. Approximately 4/5 of sexual assaults are committed by someone known to the victim.

  7. 47% of rapists are a friend or acquaintance.

  8. In 1993, about 9.7 million Americans were sexually assaulted.  Due to the hard work of raising awareness and ending sexual violence, in the last 20 years, this has declined to 4.2 million.  That is a great thing to see, but we still have a long way to go to end sexual violence.

  9. About 3% of American men (or 1 in 33) have experienced either attempted or completed rape in their lifetime.

  10. Every 8 minutes, child protective services responds to a report of sexual abuse.

These facts are from www.rainn.org

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Haven House has been providing free and confidential services to
domestic violence and sexual assault survivors since 1978. 
This includes everything from providing a safe place to stay in our emergency shelter
to helping survivors reestablish their own households.

We can only do what we do, because of the support of great people like you. 
Would you help us to help survivors and consider donating $5, $10, or $20?

Thank you.




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